There are a lot of things offered to us in an effort to make us more appealing, more attractive, more desirable. Makeup and clothing, hairstyles, fitness regimes, ways of texting or talking or behaving in public… The list goes on and on. However, it’s not about changing who you are to get someone to be impressed by you or notice you. If that were the case, it would be pretty exhausting and unfulfilling to pretend to be someone else in order to score a date, right? And who wants to be in a relationship with someone if they’re not attracted to the real us?
Taking what comes naturally and using it to our advantage is a tried-and-true formula when it comes to attracting people we want in our orbit. Both in friendships and relationships, our most appealing qualities will draw people to us without having to try so hard or become someone we’re not. Because let’s get real here: the person you already are is pretty great.

Here are your two best qualities, based on your astrological sign.


Capricorn: Their Determination

Not everyone will understand certain aspects of Capricorn’s personality, but those who do will appreciate their determination. This Earth sign knows what they want out of life and are willing to put in the hard work to get it.

This doesn’t have to limit itself to the boardroom, either; Capricorn is a sign that refuses to leave a project unfinished, and that includes relationships. They are willing to put in the effort necessary to make a relationship work, and that, in their weird, Capricorn way, is their idea of showing love, which is both sweet and hard to say no to!

Capricorn: Amazing Ambition

Capricorn isn’t a selfish sign. To like-minded people, Capricorn’s desire and drive to succeed are incredibly attractive. Who hasn’t wanted to dump the lazy S.O. who’s been chilling on their couch and being a mooch for years for the one who seems to have it all together? Ambition is a very appealing quality and one that doesn’t get enough credit.

Fortunately for those who do manage to snag a Capricorn, they want to share the wealth, because when you look good, so do they, and they think that success reflects well on both of you.